Finding the right horse or pony for a child is a big decision — one that involves more than just choosing a pretty face.
The ideal horse for a child should be calm, patient, trainable, and well-suited for a young rider’s size and skill level. Luckily, some breeds stand out for their reliability, friendly temperament, and easy-going nature.
Whether your child is just starting lessons or dreaming of their first trail ride, here are 12 of the best horse and pony breeds for kids.
1. Shetland Pony
Height: 28–42 inches
Best for: Young children, beginners
Shetlands are small, sturdy, and full of personality. They’ve been a favorite first pony for generations. While they’re strong-willed, they are also very smart and bond closely with kids when handled gently and consistently.
2. Welsh Pony (Section A & B)
Height: 11–13.2 hands
Best for: All-around riding, jumping, pony club
Welsh ponies are graceful, athletic, and often great all-rounders. Section A ponies are smaller and better for younger kids, while Section B ponies are slightly taller and suitable for older children. They’re energetic but usually have kind temperaments.
3. Connemara Pony
Height: 13–15 hands
Best for: Older kids, jumping, eventing
Connemaras are known for being versatile and dependable. They have enough energy for active riders but remain safe and steady. Their friendly disposition and willingness to please make them one of the best large ponies for confident kids.
4. American Quarter Horse
Height: 14–16 hands
Best for: Trail riding, western riding, beginner lessons
Quarter Horses are famous for being calm, dependable, and easy to train. They’re often patient with beginner riders and make excellent mounts for kids who are starting out or looking to grow into a horse they won’t outgrow quickly.
5. Pony of the Americas (POA)
Height: 11.2–14 hands
Best for: Riding lessons, 4-H, general riding
The POA is a small, Appaloosa-like breed known for its gentle nature and fun attitude. Bred specifically for children and smaller riders, POAs are strong, colorful, and kid-friendly.
6. Miniature Horse
Height: Under 34 inches
Best for: Groundwork, learning horse care
While they’re not suitable for riding (unless your child is very small), miniature horses are wonderful companions for children. They teach responsibility, grooming, groundwork, and build confidence around animals.
7. Haflinger
Height: 13.2–15 hands
Best for: Older kids, trail riding, driving
Haflingers are beautiful golden horses with sweet expressions and a calm, steady nature. Their compact size makes them approachable for kids, and they’re strong enough to carry older children or even adults. They’re also great for driving!
8. Morgan Horse
Height: 14–15.2 hands
Best for: English and western riding, showing
Morgans are spirited yet manageable and often form strong bonds with their riders. Their versatility means they can do everything from dressage to trail riding, and they’re ideal for kids who are a little more experienced.
9. Gypsy Vanner
Height: 14–15.2 hands
Best for: Gentle rides, therapy, showing
With their stunning feathered legs and calm disposition, Gypsy Vanners are gentle giants. They’re kind, forgiving, and love people, which makes them fantastic for children, especially those new to horses or needing extra confidence.
10. Icelandic Horse
Height: 13–14 hands
Best for: Trail riding, fun gaits
Though technically horses, Icelandics are pony-sized and perfect for kids. They’re sturdy, curious, and offer fun, smooth gaits like the tölt. Their thick coats make them well-suited for colder climates.
11. Appaloosa
Height: 14–15.2 hands
Best for: Trail rides, western events
Appaloosas are not just striking to look at — they’re also known for being calm and trustworthy. They’re a solid choice for older kids who want a full-sized horse that’s still manageable and friendly.
12. Arabian (Select Lines)
Height: 14–15 hands
Best for: Experienced young riders
Arabians are sensitive, intelligent, and bond closely with their people. While they’re not ideal for brand-new riders, calm and well-trained Arabians can make excellent partners for older kids who are developing their riding skills.
Final Thoughts
When choosing a horse or pony for a child, it’s important to consider not only the breed, but also the individual horse’s temperament, training, and experience. Always prioritize safety, and work with a reputable trainer or instructor to help find the right match.
A good horse can do more than teach riding — it can teach patience, responsibility, and confidence. And with the right pony or horse by their side, your child will be on the path to a lifetime love of horses.